And there are so many wrong assumptions in this post I can't even be bothered to start flaming it. For a start, apparently everyone who reads compersion is in America and has the same "lifestyle". *hangs head*, goes back to alt.poly circa 1997.
For those who are wondering, my lifestyle is based far more around geek, extrovert and childfree than it is around being polyamorous. I suspect disposable income plays a big part as well. Who I sleep with seems pretty far down the list.