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Apparently my relationships do not actually exist. - helen-louise — LiveJournal
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Apparently my relationships do not actually exist.
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From: griffen Date: 17th February 2011 13:52 (UTC) (Link)
Sweetheart, I see you getting really upset about the clueless here. Why? They're clueless. You can't change them by yelling at them. You can only change them by being an example that they can't ignore.

I have two husbands and a girlfriend. Does the law recognize that my husband 2 is my husband? No. Does this anger me? Yes. Will being angry with the fundamentally clueless change that? Probably not.

But I still tell people "He's my husband," every chance I get. That, over time, will get them to change their minds. Yelling at them, on the other hand, will just make them even more resistant.
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